Harold, I don't know if you got an answer that satisfies you. And I'm not sure I have an answer either, since I don't mind using my credit card. I keep an eye on the account and will dispute any fradulent charges. (I'd never use my debit card, though.)
My main question relates to payment. I wouldn't trust any of these guys with my credit card, and the majority of them don't take money orders. (Some of them do I know).
So at the moment I am too confused to continue down this path but I thought I would post here and hopefully get some advice from someone more experienced.
But maybe if you more clearly articulated your question, you'd get a better response. I'm not trying to be annoying, but your post actually didn't ask a specific question.
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