Hate anti-depressants, or at least taking them for anxiety/ I've been on Paxil, Zoloft, Effexor, and its the same. I can take huge doses of these drugs, feel like an asexual zombie who is just going through the motions of having a life. Just give me a reasonable amount of benzos so I can cope with life without losing the ability to enjoy it.
This is completely my own situation. I know many other who are honestly helped by anti-depressents and am happy it works for them.