Come for direction-Stay for the company

[frogndprincess]

I am new to this board, and none of you know me yet, but I would like to tell you what I've found. First, although I am introducing myself, it is for qualification only and that is not why this post was made.
I broke my back in 1986. Shots, surgery, rehab, you name it. Been on narcotics for over 20 yrs. I started using online/telemed in 2002. My physical pain is usually equaled, and often exceeded by mental and emotional dispair. Enough about me.
There was/is situation, where a memberof this community is down, hurting and saddend, in pain, beyond the physical, suffering on a level that, Lord willing, you will never have to go through. And as one who has personally been there, felt such pain, dispair and suffering, wishing for the end, I tell you it happens all to often. I saw members here reach out, supporting and encouraging in a way that defies the selfishness and "what about me" attitude that has become commonplace today. This was done with no expectation of personal gain or promise of reward, seeking only to help where the could.
I cannot begin to tell you how VERY crucial it is to have a place where one can, w/o fear of judgement or indictment, open up, put word to feeling, shed the facade many of us, as chronic pain sufferers, put on everyday. The masks we wear in front of our wives and children, what we try to portray to our loved ones, they take a toll. Often, the ratio of "what we show them" to "how we really are" is negatively disproportionate. The burden can become seemingly unbearable.
By reason of 4 children: 3 girls, one autistic, and a 16 month boy with his own issues, I no longer the time i used to have. But when I can, I'll be here.
Everyone has come here for their own reasons. Many may just want they want, 'nuff said. But this is more than just a reference guide. It is also a community where you can be yourself, no mask. Where you can be honest w/o fear, ask advice when questions arise, and gather strength if yours fails. May you find what your looking for, and use what you have to restore and return another to a better place.

[Perromaldido]

I see you've been around too and know your stuff mate. Welcome.

Perromaldido

[UGAgal]

Welcome to PR. Yes many come for the source then leave. But a lot of us stick round and help others in need with support, compassion, advice etc.

[Gadget]

Welcome to the forum @frogndprincess. I have found quite a bit of direction since joining and I am here almost daily even though my post count doesn't really show this. Unfortunately most of the time I can only come here and read up while on my commute so I have to use my phone and it is difficult to post on it.
I hope that you find the forum as helpful to you as I have found it to myself.

[poocheroo]

Welcome! Yes, there is a lot of great information on this site and I love to goof off with many of the folks here but when there is someone in crisis, I do see a lot of people quickly respond and give heartfelt thoughts and advice. Often times someone has been in the same situation and can help another see the forest for the trees. Negativity and depression are the kind of things that survive when fed regularly by more negative thoughts. People here are very quick to step in and be positive and supportive when needed or even give a quick reality slap when our pity parties go one a little too long and that is why I stay. (well also because I feel I have made some friends who get my sense of humor). Being a stay at mom and having a parent and grandparent pass away within 5 days of each other in January combined with back and neurological issues, I have felt a little isolated and gloomy. This forum has truly helped in preventing me from going to the dark side and I don't think I have laughed like I have in the past few weeks in a really long time. I hope you can find some time to look around and make connections. We look forward to reading your thoughts and comments.

[pinkygurl]

Hi there, just introducing myself. I joined the forum last summer but never made any initial posts and then life got in the way! :-) I am now back and hoping to both gain and provide knowledge and support wherever possible. I spent time over the years on another forum but it is much less active than this one. Great to meet you all, officially!

Ps - it's also great to see some familiar "faces" that I haven't seen in quite some time!

[demi]

Welcome PinkyGurl!! I love your name!! I want to wish you a fantastic holiday weekend and success using this forum... Lets all make the long march to SR Status!!

[frogndprincess]

Thanks for taking the time peruse. May the long, strange trip be good to us all.

[IGoeOn]

Herro! I just wanted to welcome you to this forum @frogndprincess. I am new here and still learning the ropes. I pop on and off different boards and have started to meet some pretty cool people. I like that (based on the very small amount I know) people here seem to be in similar situations to myself - relatively young, parents, workers, etc. I look forward to reading some of yo' stuff!

[frogndprincess]

It's such an honor to be here today. I'd like to thank all the little people, whose names I can't remember...
SWEET!! I just got a notice that I have 55 posts (the one's that count toward the pre-reqs to enter the promised land)! I've been here since 5.19, roughly 50 days, and it honestly doesn't seem like it's been that long. I want to thank all of you for welcoming me and helping me out with questions and getting to know this community.
Some personal thank-you's to a few special individuals for all the fun and making the time just fly by: @Diamond22, @bambino, @crucibelle, and @johnnylarue35. Playing with you guys is great. Danke.
[Also, forgive me for not using the "like" & "helpful". That is not something I ever really paid attention to before. As I am now so close to gaining access I realize that it is not just important for me as a new member, but the way in which I should show my appreciation and pay honor or respect to those who share their experience and wisdom with us. Without their direction and support, speaking for myself, I would still be floundering around here somewhere, trying to figure out where to go,what to do, and how to do it.]
Hope to see you all soon on the "other" side. Thanks, Frog.
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[Cranberry]

@frogndprincess Glad to help you in any way that we can and happy that you are enjoying yourself along the way. Good luck whenever you make it into the seniors area and I love your avatar, simply adorable. Even though it's been awhile, I'll say it again. See ya around the forum!

[frogndprincess]

Hey @Diamond, I'm sorry I didn't reply sooner. With these babies, time has a way of slippin' away. I love them dearly and would be not only so very sad, but incomplete without them. But they demand nothing less than complete dedication and devotion. Of course that's mostly my fault for making them my center, my solid ground, and my love. I find nothing else has the power to elevate me when I'm down or bring me joy in the midst of pain. Yes the converse is also true, but the good exceeds abundantly and the joys are without compare.
That being said, I plan to be around for a long time. I see no reason to even look elsewhere. I thank you for being here and advising and supporting me. I notice that there are a handful of members who are always around greeting the new people and generally just being nice. In this selfish age, with the current climate and state of social retardation, that is something that is rarely, if ever, found. May your rewards never be found wanting.
BTW: I am only 2pts away from fulfilling the pre-reqs. Can't wait for that first little pip!

[frogndprincess]

Happy Happy Joy Joy Happy Happy Joy Joy Happy Happy Joy Joy

I made it. A senior at last.

[barkingmad]

@frogndprincess, congratulations on reaching it. You'll find many of us open up a great deal more when it comes to sharing our lves.

[Keith K Stone]

Happy Happy Joy Joy Happy Happy Joy Joy Happy Happy Joy Joy

I made it. A senior at last.

Have you visited the Magic Kingdom yet?

[GoingBananas]

Hey, very cool. I love the way this board has a way of building engagement and getting us involved in habits many of us don't have a lot of experience in, being patient, polite, social and helpful!

Congrats

[Cranberry]

Happy Happy Joy Joy Happy Happy Joy Joy Happy Happy Joy Joy

I made it. A senior at last.

Hey @frogndprincess congrats on being a senior citizen now, lol!

[Binky]

Hello @frogndprincess & congratulations on becoming a senior member.I hope that you enjoy your time here & that you find what you are looking for.

[itis]

@frogndprincess yes yes welcome. So much will now become clear to you. The veil has been lifted, be prepared to see some things that may disturb you, truth about the roswell apap. Incident...where jfk got boner pills just joking, pretty much its all the same but now you are cooler than all your friends. Your membership pack with jacket , beefy-t, and umbrella should already be in the mail welcome aboard!

[frogndprincess]

Thank You, Thank You..No Applause, Just send money.

I just got back from vacation with the family, so I will try to catch up tomorrow. Again, thanks everyone who helped, guided and supported. I missed the games, so see ya'll later for sure.