I told my husband the other day that I had completed a transaction online the other day. He generally deals with the bills and there was a foreign transaction fee on the statement when I checked it. I decided to 'fess up - I am a person who would rather say that I am sorry than ask for permission. My DH wasn't super cool with the whole thing, to be honest. I understood his reaction - I anticipated his reaction. That's why I didn't tell him to begin with. . .
Which just got me thinking about secrets. The secrets we keep from our family - even the secrets we keep from ourselves. I can lie to myself really well - too well. "This is FINE. I am FINE." All of you steppers have got me thinking about the old adage "we are only as sick as our secrets" . . .
Are you guys up front about your online activities with your partners or spouses? Are they on board or not so much?